Maybe we did.
I have been thinking, 2014 was when SJWs began to lose and when GamerGate began.
And I think those two things were tied. Before GamerGate, SJWs infiltrated many urban tribes with little to no opposition. But then they tried to do so with gamers and gamers fought back.
Then out of a sudden, and as if they went desperate, SJWs began to act crazier and crazier, An example of this is the "Gamers are dead" articles and how the narrative came crashing down as mainstream media tried to paint gamers as monsters.
As things went on it seemed SJWs went crazier, trying to push all their nonsense at once in a single big hit, for example the many Tumblr genders and pronouns, general disdain for everything masculine, advocacy for censorship. In general SJWs saw some sort of opposition and realized it could, and will, make their plans crumble and so they tried to rush them.
Normal people of course did not like it. Since they rushed their plans, normalfags got redpilled quite easily because they noticed something was off with what SJWs preached. Suddenly things went from anti American and anti imperialist words which resonated with nearly every country (Even America) to anti Western civilization propaganda. It went from gay acceptance to ostracism for straight people. It went from anti racism to racism against white people being justified.
People noticed something was wrong and that what SJWs began to propose was not something they were OK with. And it all got bigger in 2014. And once they got tired of being called bigots for not giving in, they voted for Trump when the other option was a tyranical murderous SJW candidate.
I might be making mere conjectures here, but I get the feeling the birth of GamerGate was the moment SJWs faced resistance for the first time, and in their desperate attempt at crushing it they shot themselves in the foot.