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![Even redditors hates indians Imao Anonymous (ID: yl44w4f7) 01/17/24(Wed)00:55:00 No.455461434 >>455461692 >same exact post >redditors call the one against blacks racist >redditors defend the one against indians never been more over for pajeets File: lol.png (903 KB, 1598x1590) Posted by uldatingindiangays Of years ago 4.5k AITA for telling some Indian friends that they are the reason I dont date Indian men? Not the A-hole Our uni group met up the other day for drinks (This is ok in my area) and the guys start talking about dating. Some have girlfriends and some are still looking. They got into the topic of race when it came to women. Basically all of them having a kind of gross discussion about how many ethnicities they've banged. Out of nowhere one of my friends, I'll call him Arjun, asks me if I have ever dated an Indian guy (he is Indian). I said no, because it's true, and that puts a huge target on my forehead. They start asking why and keep prodding for specifics. I tried keeping it diplomatic at first just saying "The opportunity never came up". "I wasn't really dating much in uni", "No brown guy has been interested" and they just kept at it. They were joking and clearly thinking it was hilarious that they were making me uncomfortable. Pretty common in our group and not something I would normally mind. I finally snap and say "I don't date brown guys because I spent 4 years with you guys" in a jokey way. Most of them laughed but Arjun, the guy who had asked in the first place, got pretty offended and asked what that was supposed to mean. I told him straight that I have been around when they talk about white girls and I know how a lot of Indian guys think that white women are loose. I spent years listening to them talk about how they date or just have sex with white girls because they are easier than Indian girls and have less expectations. I've heard them say that they want to have their fun until they have to get serious about marriage then they dump their white girlfriends and marry Indian girls their families pick for them. Obviously I know that not all Indian men are like this and it's a generalization but from my own experience I don't think it's uncommon for them to act or think this way. I wasn't expecting a big response but all the guys started getting super defensive. They told me that what I said was racist and f----- up. Arjun in particular told me that I'm not as hot as I think I am and 1 shouldn't be so arrogant. Apparently my words were construed as me thinking that white girls are hotter than Indian girls. Definitely not what I said but that's how they received it. The whole thing got so uncomfortable that I just ended up leaving. I'm debating right now on whether I should be apologizing to them or just dipping out of that friend group. So I am here for a judgement. Am I the a------ here? Sort By: Top (Suggested) ruralife-4 yr ago Q Search comments NTA. They aren't offended. They are embarrassed because you have accurately described them and it doesn't look flattering. 7.4kShare Posted by u/datingblackguys 3 years ago 66 AITA for telling some Black friends that they are the reason I don't date Black men? Our uni group met up the other day for drinks (This is ok in my area) and the guys start talking about dating. Some have girlfriends and some are still looking. They got into the topic of race when it came to women. Basically all of them having a kind of gross discussion about how many ethnicities they've banged. Out of nowhere one of my friends, I'll call him DeShawn, asks me if I have ever dated a Black guy (he is Black). I said no, because it's true, and that puts a huge target on my forehead. They start asking why and keep prodding for specifics. I tried keeping it diplomatic at first just saying "The opportunity never came up". "I wasn't really dating much in uni", "No Black guy has been interested" and they just kept at it. They were joking and clearly thinking it was hilarious that they were making me uncomfortable. Pretty common in our group and not something I would normally mind. I finally snap and say "I don't date Black guys because I spent 4 years with you guys" in a jokey way. Most of them laughed but DeShawn, the guy who had asked in the first place, got pretty offended and asked what that was supposed to mean. I told him straight that I have been around when they talk about White girls and I know how a lot of Black guys think that White women are loose. I spent years listening to them talk about how they date or just have sex with White girls because they are easier than Black girls and have less expectations. Obviously I know that not all Black men are like this and it's a generalization but from my own experience I don't think it's uncommon for them to act or think this way. I wasn't expecting a big response but all the guys started getting super defensive. They told me that what I said was racist and f----- up. DeShawn in particular told me that I'm not as hot as I think I am and I shouldn't be so arrogant. Apparently my words were construed as me thinking that White guys are better than Black guys. Definitely not what I said but that's how they received it. The whole thing got so uncomfortable that I just ended up leaving. I'm debating right now on whether I should be apologizing to them or just dipping out of that friend group. So I am here for a judgement. Am I the a------ here? This thread has been locked by the moderators of r/AmItheAsshole New comments cannot be posted Sort By: Top (Suggested) Q Search comments Kaytee3456 4 yr. ago NTA. I'm an Indian girl and every friend, cousin, friend-of-a-friend, etc who has studied abroad has this exact attitude towards white women and dating. It's so sexist and sickening! You were right to call it out. Unfortunately this prevails because it is a win-win situation in Indian society: The racist parents look the other way and ignore their annoyance at their sons having fun with white and non-Indian girls in college, because they're confident that sooner or later they'll be able to force their sons into an arranged marriage with a suitable Indian girl from the same caste, community, class, etc. It's like an unspoken arrangement. The guys are happy spending their "wild" college days having fun with uninhibited white women and they fully expect to get virginal, subservient Indian wives through arranged marriage later. Indian women get massively screwed over in this arrangement because Indian society is super intolerant of its women being sexually active. They are expected to remain virgins until marriage EVEN THOUGH they are also expected to be happy/unfazed by their husbands having a past. Women who go against this are slut shamed and ostracised. It sucks. As a brown woman, I apologize for the nonsense you have had to put up with. We all deserve better. 2.9k Share Human_4_sure-3 yr. ago ESH You are being racist thinking all black guys act the same, but your group of friends is being racist and a bit sexist, they don't seem nice people. Vote Share IdaBaldwin 3 yr. ago ESH. Your friends sound as though they don't respect your boundaries, and they are misogynistic. However, I am almost leaning towards YT A after this sentence Obviously I know that not all Black men are like this and it's a generalization but from my own experience I don't think it's uncommon for them to act or think this way. This is a generalisation about an entire race-moreover, it is a generalisation aligned with historical stereotypes of Black men being crude and hypersexual. Such generalisations are racist. And racism is AHish. Vote Share Alert-Potato 4 yr. ago Craptain [179] So they've spent a few years openly admit that they view white women as inferior, but then call you racist for saying that you aren't interested in being viewed that way by your boyfriend? Totally NTA. No one is an a------ for refusing to open themselves up to being a disposable sex toy when what they want is a serious relationship. What the f---. 2.7k Share [deleted]-3 yr. ago ESH I don't even know why you're all friends Vote Share ***](https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/002/792/798/88b.jpeg "That subreddit is a joke | /r/Greentext")
