This is like finding a Japanese soilder who never knew the war ended fifty years after the fact, except in reverse…
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TL:DR the site is much less friendly than it used to be. Political divisiveness which was already present really hit big during the Trump administration. You are way more likely to see discussions revolve around anti-lgbt polices than about the most recent anime, clever new memes, and which pony is best pony.. A lot of older users have since left or deactivated and the sense of community just… isn't there.
Legitimately, happened to view Crashfalcon's wall yesterday [user who has been inactive for like, 7 years, but was semi big in kym's mlp community] and wow,. Nothing about that experience feels reflective of the site today. Like, in the past, a request for "everyone's well being" would actually be answered by community members on behalf of others. Now it's little more than a "present" vote.
Image galleries like reaction images, mlp, hentai quotes that used to be constantly filled with new images are barely touched. A great portion of images uploaded by users are Political in nature, or at least about real world events. Uh, there is also the KYM collector bot that automatically uploads some reddit posts. They are of variable quality, and definitely have a lot of Political images given it hits politicalcompassmemes.
uh… I definitely could answer some specific questions if desired.
Most of the mod team of the time (Captain Blubber, madcat, Tomberry, Holycrapitsbob, Verbose, RandomMan, BsoD, Loli, Random 21, Mom Rivers, Deltamelon, muffinlicous) has since become extremely inactive or deactivated. James and Brad, long time staff members have both left.
If you are wanting a sense of the old KYM community, the discord is about the closest place it still exists. It isn't the same, but several of the older users that just wanna hang out with friends they made of the site are more likely to be there than here.