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HEYAMC, WHAT ARE YOU THINKING ABOUT TODAY? IVE BEEN TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHY NATSUKI PUT UP WITH HER FATHER'S ABUSE FOR SO LONG WELL, WHAT YOU GOTTA UNDERSTAND IS PEOPLE IN THESE SITUATIONS FEEL ENTIRELY POWERLESS. ALMOST ALWAYS, THE ABUSER ATTEMPTS TO ISOLATE THE VICTIM AWAY FROM ANY MEANS OF OUTSIDE SUPPORT AND BY USING FEAR, OBLIGATION, AND GUILT THEY KEEP THE VICTIM IN A PERPETUAL FOG, WHICH STOPS THE VICTIM FROM RECOVERING THEIR WITS LONG ENOUGH TO SEE THROUGH THE ABUSER'S REPETITIVE TACTICS. SUCH AS HOT BUTTONS, WHICH ARE WEAKNESSES THAT WHEN ATTACKED CAUSE AN AUTOMATIC OR IMPULSE RESPONSE. ALLOWING THE ABUSER TO PREDICT A VICTIM'S RESPONSE AND OUT PLAN THEM COMMON ONES ARE AN INTENSE FEAR OF ANGER, PEACE AT ANY PRICE, OR EVEN A NEED FOR APPROVAL. ALL THINGS THAT THE ABUSER EXPLOITS, TRAGICALLY, OVER TIME THE VICTIM STARTS TO SEE THIS AS NORMAL WHICH CAN DEVELOP INTO A TRAUMA BOND, AN ADDICTION TO MAKE EXTREME HIGHS AND LOWS WHICH WHEN THE VICTIM LEAVES, MAKES ALL OTHER RELATIONSHIPS FEEL MUTED AND EMPTY BY COMPARISON THIS BOND DRAWS THE VICTIM BACK TO THE ABUSER, AS THE VICTIM WOULD RATHER FEEL BAD WITH THE ABUSER, INSTEAD OF FEELING EMPTY WHILE AWAY FROM THE ABUSER. WHICH MANY PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND. THE VICTIM IS ASKED WHY GO BACK?" AND THEY ARENT ABLE TO GIVE A GOOD ANSWER. SO MANY PEOPLE GIVE UP ON THE VICTIM. THINKING THAT THEY WANT THE ABUSE BECAUSE THEY STAY

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Understanding Someone Who Was Abused


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